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 Well, we have crossed half the month of September. Feels like a little bit of a victory. Not that not crossing it would have been anything of a failure. Anyway, here are a few things that I am grateful for:

1. Papa is well. We spoke today. There are some new developments that I am not crazy about. But I am really going to try and keep my cool about things. The other day I met some friends and it seems that all of our individual and collective problems seem to be an inability to stay present in the situation. And our inability to trust and surrender. I think this year I will break this bondage - of always worrying about the future.

2. Really enjoyed Buckingham Murders. Kareena Kapoor is mighty fine. As is Ranveer Brar. The movie, I thought, could have dwelled a little more in silences and quietness. It's not as if you can't guess the identity of the murderer midway (I did). But as good police proedurals go, the plot is not the point. 

3. Got a good facial after ages - maybe after 10 years. I was just feeling really run-down. The Urban Company facialist was sweet and so polite.

4. Quite enjoyed the rajira atta cucumber paratha that my cook made.

5. Am having a quick cuppa noodles as I type this. It's extra spicy. Yummy.

6. I returned from Fun Republic close to midnight and the streets were lit and happy with pandals serving late dinners. This feeling of safety in the dark in a big megalopolis is a different kind of exhilaration.

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