This isn't exactly a feminist tirade, but this is written by a woman, and it is written in annoyance. You raise your girls to be sweet, strong, and independent. (Wise parents teach their children to listen to opinions and discard or heed accordingly. The other ones just teach their kids to bullshit everything that everyone says. Still others bring up girls to be on guard and forget that spine so that everyone thinks well of them. I am not sure which is worse, but I detest people shoving their opinions down other people's throats in a show of liberation, so I'll lean towards the former. But only slightly.) As the gender construct of being a 'female' is pushed even further, you teach your daughter complicated activities – driving, perhaps, sending them off away from home, wearing a sari (those freaking pleats!), cooking and de-veining prawns for added advantage. At the end of that, you have a person who genuinely dislikes blending into anything, doesn't like bei...
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anumita
now that I'm kind of addicted to reading your blogs and you won't write for one whole month :( as The Idle Devil said please reconsider, please..just a request :)
I am feeling really empty...sick and empty. I lost someone very close in the blasts. And it's just hard to write anymore. Perhaps I will get over it sooner...it's just that I think I have written enough for this year.
My condolences about your loss. A friend of mine was seriously injured in one of the Delhi serial blasts recently, and I can only imagine your anguish.
Hope people understand the futility and utter foolishness of killing others.
~Ajay
I'll pray that you get over it soon and may the one who has lost his/her life get place in heaven!
hugs
Really sorry to hear that. Take care. Hope to see you back here soon.
Sushma
My second reaction was: Ah 2008. Smart. Almost got me there.
My third reaction was: Sigh. Your comment. I felt like a heel about reactions 1 & 2
My fourth reaction is: So sorry for your loss... come back soon, there are plenty of folks here who'll be waiting :)
and theres something for u in my blog
I am a regular reader of your blog!
sayoni